Daily:
Monday-Saturday
7:30 and 8:15 AM (Daily Chapel)
Monday
Evenings: 7:30
PM
Holy
Days: See
Current Bulletin
First
Friday
Holy Hour 7PM
Weekday
Masses are held in the DAILY CHAPEL during Lent & Advent
RECTORY
OFFICE HOURS
Monday
thru Friday: 8:30 AM to 4:30 PM
Saturday
and Sunday: 8:30 AM to 1:30 PM
How
to best View this page:
First watch the carousel
above for major features and events.
The rest of the page is
laid out in a series of categories stacked vertically. We update
these categories weekly and the overall page length is open
ended depending on content. You can take a leisurely stroll
from top to bottom if you want but a better way is to use the
category "Jump Menu" buttons below to take you to
what you are most interested in.
God is love, and He revealed that love in sending His only Son to be a sacrificial offering for our sins.
In these words from today’s Epistle, we should hear an echo of the story of Abraham’s offering of Isaac at the dawn of salvation history. Because Abraham obeyed God’s command and did not with-hold his only beloved son, God promised that Abraham’s descendants, the children of Israel, would be the source of blessing for all nations (see Genesis 22:16-18).
We see that promise coming to fulfillment in today’s First Reading. God pours out His Spirit upon the Gentiles, the non-Israelites, as they listen to the word of Peter’s preaching. Notice they receive the same gifts received by the devout Jews who heard Peter’s preaching at Pentecost—the Spirit comes to rest upon them and they speak in tongues, glorifying God (see Acts 2:5-11).
In his love today, God reveals that His salvation embraces the house of Israel and peoples of all nations. Not by circumcision or blood relation to Abraham, but by faith in the Word of Christ, sealed in the sacrament of baptism, peoples are to be made children of Abraham, heirs to God’s covenants of promise (see Galatians 3:7-9; Ephesians 2:12).
This is the wondrous work of God that we sing of in today’s Psalm. It is the work of the Church, the good fruit that Jesus chooses and appoints His apostles for in today’s Gospel.
As Peter raises up Cornelius today, the Church continues to lift all eyes to Christ, the only one in whose name they can find salvation.
In the Church, each of us has been begotten by the love of God. But the Scriptures today reveal that this divine gift brings with it a command and a duty. We are to love one another as we have been loved. We are to lay down our lives in giving ourselves to others—that they too might find friendship with Christ, and new life through Him
Seated at the
Right Hand of the Father : The Ascension of
the Lord
Mass
Intensions
SATURDAY
May 19th 4:00 PM Raymond
Weakland/req. Flora Roche 5:30 PM Rose Tramutola & Filomena O’Neill/req. The Barlowski Family
SUNDAY,
May 20th 6:45 AM People of the Parish 8:00 AM Jeanne Khan/req. Family 9:30 AM Joseph N. Hrymack/req. Family 11:00 AM Leslie Pucci/req. The Greene Family 12:30 PM Emily Fuentes/req. Mr. & Mrs. Sweador
Memorials
Church Sanctuary Candle for the week of May 20 is “In Loving Memory” of Malachi Towey, Sr./req. Wife & Family. Chapel Sanctuary Candle for the week of May 20 is “In Loving Memory” of Dec’d Members of Hegadorn Family/req. Jim Hegadorn Sacred Heart Candle for the week of May 20 is “In Loving Memory” of Martin J. Healey/req. Wife, Louise Blessed Mother Candle for the week of May 20 is “In Loving Memory” of The Arcuri & Perri Families/req. Connie Perri & Children.
Pray for the happy repose of the souls of deceased members of the Parish,
especially;
Richard Chybinski
Weekly Video Theme
Each
week we select a few videos to reinforce the theme of the Sunday
Liturgy. Click on the graphic in the sliding menu above or click
below.
TODAY'S
READINGS
Acts 10:25-26, 34-35, 44-48
Psalm 98:1-4
1 John 4:7-10
John 15:9-17
READINGS
FOR THE WEEK
MAY 21 MON. Easter Weekday
Acts 19:1-8 John 16:29-33 MAY 22 TUES. Easter Weekday
Acts 20:17-27 John 17:1-11 MAY 23 WED Easter Weekday
Acts 20:28-38 John 17:11-19 MAY 24 THUR.
Acts 22:30; 23:6-11 John 17:20-26 MAY 25 FRI. Saint Bede the Venerable, priest and doctor
Acts 25:13-21 John 21:15-19 MAY 26 SAT. Saint Philip Neri, priest
Acts 28:16-20, 30-31 John 21:20-25
“PRAY FOR OUR SICK” Cindy Maguire, Frank Thomas,
Theresa Knight
Sunday,
May 20th
The Ascension of the Lord Mark 16:15-20 Go into the whole world and proclaim the gospel. (Mark 16:15)
What a simple, but immense, charge Jesus gave to his disciples! He even told them that those who accepted their message would be saved, while those who didn't would be condemned.
Imagine their reaction: Really, Lord? We're just fishermen. You can't expect us to go out and save the whole human race! But Jesus made this a win-win situation. He did send his apostles out to preach and convert the world, but he didn't send them alone. He made it so that people would be baptized not on the basis of the disciples' preaching skills but in response to his own grace at work in their hearts. As the twelve became more open to the Spirit, grace would flow more powerfully. Yes, they had to become good at preaching, but they knew that God was even better.
Likewise, the more open we are to God, the more his grace will flow through us. This is part of the wonder of the Christian life: God takes every "yes" that any of his followers says and fills it with his own divine "Yes!" Every time we sit in his presence in prayer, he fills us with even more of his presence to take into the world. It does take effort on our part, but that human effort is so small when compared to the divine strength that accompanies it. Just as Mary's "yes" to the angel Gabriel set in motion the biggest change in human history, our "yes" to the Lord will cause a chain reaction far beyond our expectations.
On this Feast of the Ascension, let's rejoice with the saints who have come before us, and let's commit ourselves to preaching to the saints who will come after us. None of the apostles could have guessed how far their "yes" to Jesus would take them—or how much fruit they would bear for the kingdom. And neither can we. There is much work left to be done, but our God is with us, and his promises are true. "Yes, Jesus/ Thank you for calling me into your service!"
"For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body, whether Jews or Greeks, slaves or free persons, and we were all given to drink of one Spirit" (1
Corinthians 12:13).
The heart of our Catholic faith is a relationship with Jesus Christ. It is a relationship that heals us, transforms us and saves us. This relationship begins with our Baptism and is nourished throughout our lives with prayer, worship and the sacraments where we meet Jesus in a special way. Our Catholic faith leads us to a loving God who created us to share in his own life and who continually invites us to share in the unity of his family, the Church. We are united in love and in love we move out into the world to serve all of God's people.
When Carol accepted the invitation to spend Thanksgiving day with Mrs. G and her family, she had no idea the day would begin with Mass. She hadn't been through the doors of a church in years but she hesitated to insult the woman who had done so much to help her get back on her feet. As they made their way to the pew, Carol felt her uneasiness subside. She noticed the people around her, how different they all were. But something had brought them all here together. Carol recognized the opening hymn, and joined in the familiar responses. She recalled, "When I started to say the creed, 'I believe in God...and his only son, Jesus Christ...' I began to remember the faith I used to have. I felt some of the pain of the past years slipping away.
Church of the Visitation has
begun an "Outreach Program" through
our Parishioners. If you have a family member or
friend that you would like us to contact please
let us know. If you or others you know have had
a bad experience with a parish or has a problem
with why the church takes a particular point of
view. If they are looking for "Answers to
their Questions" please contact us. We want to help.
email visitationweb@comcast.net
or call 732 477-0016 or cut out the return slip
at the bottom of page 6 of this week's bulletin
and put it in the collection basket next week.
The
Catholicism Project
Join Fr. Robert Barron on a journey across the planet and deep into the faith. CATHOLICISM is a breakthrough documentary series presenting the true story of Christianity and the Catholic faith.
TELEVISION
SCHEDULE See Episode 9 and 10 this month on EWTN
Episode
10: “WORLD WITHOUT END: THE LAST THINGS” Explore the Church’s conviction that life here
and now is preparation for an extraordinary world
that is yet to come – a supernatural destiny.
Father Barron presents the Catholic vision of death,
judgment, heaven, hell and purgatory as he journeys
to Florence, Ireland and Rome. The vision of the
Church sees beyond this world and invites us to
consider a world without end. Father Barron shows
how this vision is supported by the mystery and
truth of the Resurrection of Jesus
Episode 2: HAPPY ARE WE THE TEACHINGS OF JESUS
The revelation of Jesus as God is accompanied by a stunning invitation to a unique new way of life,
explained in the teachings of Jesus. To every generation, the words of Jesus have proven fascinating,
disorienting, sometimes confounding, deeply transformative, and always unforgettable.
Father Barron highlights the Beatitudes, the path of non-violence and lessons of forgiveness, care for the
poor and our relationship with God as presented in the parables. Jesus teachings are illuminated during Fr.
Barron's pilgrimages to Poland, Germany, Spain and New York City.
Commentaries at these sites also show how the Catholic Church is a living culture, which gives witness to
the inviolable dignity of the human person.
Episode 6: A BODY BOTH SUFFERING AND GLORIOUS THE MYSTICAL UNION OF CHRIST AND THE CHURCH
Clearly answering the question, What is the Church? Father Barron presents the reality of the Church as
one, holy, catholic and apostolic. The Body of Christ can be seen on earth from the Church s center in
Rome to the cities of New York, Sao Paolo, Manila, Namugongo and Uganda, while still escaping total
understanding as the mystical union between Christ and his Church.
Father Barron also explores the Catholic conviction that the life and presence of Christ continues to
embrace humanity in all its joys and sorrows through the presence of the Church.
EWTN
WILL BE SHOWING MORE EPISODES OF THE CATHOLICISM SERIES: Episode 10 EWTN
- 5/13/12 8:00 PM ET 5/16/12 10:30 PM ET, 5/19/12 4:30 PM ET, 5/20/12 8:00 PM ET EWTN Episode 2
Episode 2 EWTN - 5/23/12 10:30 PM ET, 5/26/12 4:30 PM ET
Episode 6 EWTN - 5/27/12 8:00 PM ET, 5/30/12 10:30 PM ET
Lapsed Catholics: Where did everybody go? Bishop David M. O'Connell, C.M.
When I first learned through the “Diocesan Parish Headcounts” within the 111 parishes of the Diocese of Trenton in 2010 and 2011 that weekend Mass attendance accounted for only about 25 percent of registered parishioners, I became concerned as the Diocesan Bishop. Participation in Sunday Mass, of course, is the primary way the Church regularly preaches the Gospel to the Catholic faithful. “Diocesan Parish Headcounts” are conducted in October to provide some sense of regular attendance among our 850,000 baptized Catholics within the parishes of the diocese. They are a “snapshot” of our Church’s “outreach” to the Catholic faithful. Although our percentage was not much different – actually a little better – than the reported national average, no bishop would consider the number “good news.”
In January 2011, I read an article in America magazine entitled “On Their Way Out: What Exit Interviews Could Tell Us About Lapsed Catholics” by Father William J. Byron, S.J. Father Byron was my predecessor as president of The Catholic University of America in Washington, D.C., and is a regular columnist for Catholic publications. His name naturally caught my attention and the subject of his essay intrigued me, most significantly because of the emphasis the Catholic Church has been placing on what is being referred to as the “new evangelization.”
The question posed by Father Byron is an important one: “Does anyone know why the ranks are thinning at Catholic weekend worship?” He suggested that “taking a page from the business world and employing exit interviews” might be a helpful initiative toward finding an answer to the question.
I thought a great deal about his article and decided to contact him. He offered to conduct such an interview in survey form within the Diocese of Trenton, in cooperation with Professor Charles Zech of Villanova University’s Center for the Study of Church Management. Both gentlemen then came to our Presbyteral Council and made a presentation and proposal, which the council readily accepted.
After reviewing and editing a draft questionnaire with the pastors and priests, Father Byron noted in a March 26, 2012 article, “We got in touch with registered parishioners who are no longer showing up by placing articles in the secular and diocesan press, as well as notices in parish bulletins and requests for contact information from pastors. The survey was also offered in Spanish, sent to all the parishes with Spanish-language populations and advertised in a Spanish-language newspaper (America, March 26, 2012).”
Two hundred ninety-eight people responded to the questionnaire. Father Byron and Professor Zech collated the responses and sent me a report, the results of which I read carefully. They provided an analysis of the replies which I then shared with diocesan officials and the Presbyteral Council. Their report served as the basis of one of the presentations given at a symposium at The Catholic University of America entitled “Lapsed Catholics: Old and New Theories, Contemporary Voices, and the New Evangelization”
(more)
Real Answers and Honest Dialogue
Got a problem with a parish or a question about the church? We
want to help. email visitationweb@comcast.net
or call 732 477-0016 or write us a note and put it in the collection basket
next week.
Catholics urged to resist unjust laws, join in 'fortnight for freedom' By Nancy Frazier O'Brien
Catholic News Service
A depiction of the Statue of Liberty appears in mosaic, part of a larger piece in a side chapel at the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington. (CNS/Nancy Phelan
Wiechec)
WASHINGTON (CNS) -- American Catholics must resist unjust laws "as a duty of citizenship and an obligation of faith," a committee of the U.S. bishops said in a new statement on religious liberty.
Titled "Our First, Most Cherished Liberty," the 12-page statement by the Ad Hoc Committee on Religious Liberty also calls for "a fortnight for freedom" from June 21, the vigil of the feasts of St. John Fisher and St. Thomas More, to July 4, U.S. Independence Day.
"This special period of prayer, study, catechesis and public action would emphasize both our Christian and American heritage of liberty," the committee said. "Dioceses and parishes around the country could choose a date in that period for special events that would constitute a great national campaign of teaching and witness for religious liberty."
Made public April 12, the document was approved by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops' Administrative Committee during its March meeting for publication as a committee statement.
(more)
Raising two small children alone after her divorce
was a challenge that often brought Carol to tears. She was lonely and afraid she couldn't provide for her daughters. Help came from Mrs. G, the woman who lived next door and babysat many of the neighborhood children after school. Carol's daughters would often come home singing little children's hymns and carrying macaroni pictures of Bible stories. Carol wasn't sure how she felt about religion being part of day care, but she soon found herself singing along with her daughters, "Jesus loves me this I know, 'cause the Bible tells me so..." In time, the words would become more than just a catchy tune. They would become a way of
life. God comes to us through his son, Jesus, who had a special love for the poor and downtrodden. He healed the sick, forgave sins, suffered and sacrificed his life for others. Through him we learn about the expansive love and mercy of our God who wants nothing more than to be in a relationship with us.
A Bible Study for the Solemnity of the Ascension
Easter Reflection – Alleluia! This day is the most significant day in human and Faith History. Nor longer are we born simply to die. No longer are we slaves to sin while we live. Jesus Christ has conquered sin and death and has opened to us hope of Eternal Life with Him. The stone of despair has been removed, the stone rejected has become the Corner Stone, the stones of stubborn ignorance and vicious spite are inundated by the cleansing waters of Truth and Grace. Christ is free, and with Him, so are we. He has gone ahead, and instructed that He will meet us. All we have to do now is forget the past, the sins, ourselves, and do as He instructs; Love the Lord our God with all our heart, mind and soul, feed the hungry, clothe the naked, shelter the homeless, tend to the sick, visit the imprisoned and bury the dead. Pray constantly, and seek His face in our neighbor and ourselves. If we do these things, we will continue to meet Him, every step of the way, until we are finally face to face with Him, forever.
Jesus Christ changed the world irrevocably. By His life, death and Resurrection, He made it impossible for tyrants to dominate, for religious formalists to intimidate, for armies to justify cruelty, for doctors to practice negligence, for lawyers to employ deception, for leaders to embrace corruption, for workers to produce shoddiness, for teachers to deceive students, for parents to ignore duty, for children to assume disobedience. He made it impossible fore evil to present itself as anything but a detour to a dead end and a lie. Jesus Christ changed everything, forever.
Alleluia! We have denied ourselves for 40 days the sound of that word. Alleluia! We have denied ourselves, kept our fast and abstinence for 40 days. Alleluia! We have demonstrated to ourselves and others that God lives in our hearts, that Christ lives in our hearts, that the Holy Spirit lives in our hearts. Alleluia! We have been through darkness and despair and now stand bathe in the light of His Glory. Alleluia! The joy, the peace we now experience is but a dim image, a glimpse of what is yet to come, now that He has lived and died and is Risen! Glory be to the Father, Son and Holy Spirit! Glory to His Holy Church and His people! Alleluia!
Learn more about the Catholic faith and the love of Jesus Christ with host Msgr. Walter Nolan, pastor of St. Paul Church in Princeton and his guests. Guests include leaders in the Catholic Church as well as people like you who are living their faith each day. They share how the grace of God has empowered them to do His work here on earth.
Catholic
TV
The Catholic web site, www.CatholicTV.com
has developed two new media initiatives to further its mission to
proclaim the Gospel of Jesus Christ, as it is lived and understood
in the Catholic community.
Father
Robert Reed takes you behind-the-scenes at the CatholicTV Network.
See Saint Therese, the lobby, meet Jane, the heart of CatholicTV,
Studio C, the chapel, edit suites, the brain of CatholicTV, Mark,
Master Control, satellite center, Joe, Armando, Pete, Studio
Control, studios, Kevin Nelson, Jay Fadden, and the crew getting
ready for This is the Day.
Why Catholic
Salt
and Light TV reports on Monday through Thursday at 7pm ET
with a 5-minute daily current affairs edition of “Perspectives”. (see
direct feed above)
On Fridays, there is a new version of Perspectives:
The Weekly Edition, a 30-minute program featuring
in-depth discussions on the week’s hot topics, with host Pedro
Guevara Mann and special guests.
Tune in every First
Friday and listen to "The Shepherd's Voice"
The
Shepherd's Voice with Bishop David M. O'Connell airs on the
First Friday of each month from 3:00 - 4:00 PM. Bishop O'Connell begins the program with a teaching and a brief
commentary. Jim & Cheryl Manfredonia facilitate the
hour as they open the telephone lines so listeners can call
in and speak to the Bishop. The program will repeat
on First Friday night at 10:00 PM, the following Saturday at
4:00 PM, Sunday at 10:00 AM and Monday at 8:00 AM.
Call in LIVE and speak with Bishop O'Connell at 609-882-9357 or
1-877-552-2488, or send a question by e-mail: question@domesticchurchmedia.org
Godspell
Telecare - The Best in Catholic
Television! ® is a not-for-profit, state-of-the-art television
and production facility. For more than 40 years, Telecare
Television has been dedicated to answering a critical need: to
provide millions of viewers with quality, value-oriented Catholic
television. Our broadcast schedule airs 7 days a week, 24 hours a
day, reaching millions of households.
Our Mission Statement
Telecare - The Best in Catholic Television! ® operates with the
mission of spreading God's word through its religious and
educational Catholic programming to people of faith wherever they
may be. The purpose of Telecare's mission is to bring people of
the Catholic faith, indeed all people, closer to God.
Almost one out of four Americans is Catholic, yet
misconceptions abound about our teachings and beliefs. Why
not become the ambassador and spread the truth of our
catholic faith?
Remember our roots.
Jesus established the Catholic Church and promised “the
gates of the netherworld shall not prevail against it.”
The Church is the guardian of truth that comes from God,
not from men.
Explain the rules. It is said that we have lots of rules. The guidance we
get from the Church helps us to live holy, selfless lives
that keep us right with God and teach us how to love our
brothers and sisters. The goal is our salvation.
Have ready answers. Perhaps the answers to questions or misassumptions
aren’t on the tip of your tongue. If you have a
smart-phone, download a free Catholic Bible or an applike
“ipieta” that gives you a selection of Catholic
literature for quick answers. At home, keep a copy of the
Catechism of the Catholic Church. The glossary helps
locate subjects easily (available at www.usccb.org,
800-235-8722).
Share the love.
From the first, the Catholic Church has been about action:
caring for the sick and poor, teaching children, welcoming
immigrants, fighting for justice. Living selfless lives of
charity and love is the best way to show others the true
Catholic Church.
We want to help.
email visitationweb@comcast.net
or call 732 477-0016 or write us a note and put it in the collection basket next week.
THIS
WEEK’S SECOND COLLECTION The
Catholic Communication Campaign (CCC) follows the Holy
Father's direction that we make good use of our digital
presence in the world by making it easy to access the
important ideals of the Catholic faith online and through
television, radio, and print media. CCC provides content
the way you
need it, in podcasts for daily readings, on
websites to connect with other faithful, and on social
networking sites. Please be generous in this week's
Collection and support this important work. Much of the
material displayed on this web page is the fruit of
donations made to the (CCC)
"Coming soon
to a rectory near you."
Fr, James O'Neil has signed
on as a friend on our Visitation Facebook page. He will be
replacing Fr. Les here at Visitation in June
MOTHER'S
DAY NOVENA
Mother's
Day cards are available at the doors of the Church.Please remember to pick up your cards to have your
mother or a loved one remembered in a nine day novena
beginning Monday, May 14 in the Daily Chapel.
SACRAMENT
OF CONFIRMATION
The
sacrament of confirmation will be administered here at
Visitation
Church
by Bishop David O’Connell Thursday,
May 24, 2:30 & 5:30 PM.
Please pray
that the Holy Spirit may
lead our candidates,
SAVE
THE DATE
Visitation
will hold
Vacation
Bible
School
Monday, July 16, thru Friday, July 20, in the Rectory Basement
and Church Auditorium from 9:00 AM to Noon.If you would like to help out or would like additional
information, please contact
Nancy
Grodberg at 732-477-5217.
SAVE
THE DATE
CELEBRATION
OF THE
FEAST OF THE VISITATION JUNE
2, 2012 AT 5:30 MASS
FELLOWSHIP
FOLLOWING MASS
WE ASK THAT YOU PLEASE DO NOT TALK IN CHURCH. SOME ARE PREPARING FOR MASS WHILE OTHERS ARE GIVING THANKS. PLEASE TURN OFF ALL CELL PHONES WHILE IN THE CHURCH WORSHIP SPACE. THANK YOU AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU.
We are excited to inform you that On-Line Giving is now available. As a
church that seeks to serve, we wanted to provide /you the convenience of
being able to give the way you want, whenever you want. Online Giving
offers you the opportunity to make secure, automatic contributions from
your bank or credit card account to our Visitation bank account. Online
Giving costs you nothing and provides many advantages to you:
No
check writing or ATM stops before church
·Safe, secure, and confidential
·Use your checking, savings, or credit
card
·Schedule recurring or one-time
donations
·Change a gift or account any time you
like
·Choose offertory, special funds,
pledges
·Earn rewards through your credit card
As we begin this new program, you may notice your neighbors placing “I
Gave Online” offertory cards into the collection basket instead of
traditional envelopes. You will be able to pick up one of our “I Gave
Online” cards on your way into church and use that at offertory time if
you still want to place something in the offertory basket.
We ask that you consider using this service—especially if you currently
manage your bills or banking online. To sign up click
the Online Giving symbol above,For
more information, call Vicki at 732-477-0028 216.
However you choose to give your
time, talent, and treasure, we thank you! Visitation’s
facilities and ministries thrive only with your help.
NEXT
WEEKEND THERE WILL BE
TWO COLLECTIONS.PLEASE PLACE
YOUR REGULAR DONATION ENVELOPE IN THE FIRST BASKET AND THE ENVELOPE FOR
CATHOLIC COMMUNICATION IN THE SECOND BASKET
COMMUNITY LUNCHEON Visitation
Parish will hold a free community Luncheon on the third
Wednesday of each month from 12:00 to 1:00 PM in the Church
Auditorium. For additional information, please call
Frank and Isabel Kronicz at 732-255-2835 if interested in
helping.
Parish Registration
The Church of the Visitation is obliged to serve and minister to
all baptized Catholics living in our local area. PLEASE REGISTER
– it assists the staff in knowing you as a parishioner,
providing for your needs, informing you of parish programs and
activities, and utilizing your gifts and talents in service of the
Church and one another. Envelopes for weekly contributions are
available to you once you are registered. Please contact Deacon
Sal Vicari at ext. 218 to register
Please
support our website sponsors below.
Upcoming Meetings
Friday April 27 7PM Church
Elevator Area
Friday May 4 Church Following
Benediction at 7 PM
Friday May 11 7 PM Daily
Chapel
Friday May 18, 7 PM Daily
Chapel
Friday May 25 7PM Church
Elevator Area
GIVE THE GIFT OF WARMTH
The Respect Life Ministry is once again collecting winter coats, jackets,
hats and gloves for the needy through the month of October. These items
may be brought to St. Vincent de Paul on Saturday mornings from 8:00 AM to
2:00 PM.
This year we are also collecting blankets for the homeless and for our
wounded servicemen and women in the hospital in Kandahar, Afghanistan. We
are especially in need of men’s coats. We appreciate your past
generosity and look forward to another year of “warmth for the needy”.
MASS
CARDS:
THE GIFT OF PRAYER
The
Holy Mass is the greatest possible prayer of intercession
insofar as it is the perfect offering of Christ to the Father.
It makes present Jesus’ gift of his life, death, and
resurrection. Thus, no better prayer can be offered for
someone than the Holy Sacrifice of the
Mass.
A
Mass card is given to someone to let them know that they, or a
deceased loved-one, will be remembered and prayed for during a
Mass.
Whether
you wish to have prayers said for someone who has died,
someone who is ill, or someone who is celebrating a birthday
or anniversary, Mass Cards are an excellent way to show that
you care.
PLEASE STOP BY THE RECTORY OFFICE TO SELECT ONE OF OUR
MANY AVAILABLE INTENTION DATES FOR YOUR LOVED ONE
Each
week we will be looking at other parish web sites and
reporting back items of general interest to Visitation
parishioners
Mark
your calendars for the following events being planned for 201
2
May
16th
Community Luncheon
May 17th
Feast of the Ascension
Holy Day of Obligation
May
24th
Confirmation
June
2nd
Feast of the Visitation
Fellowship following 5:30 Mass
July
16 thru 20
Vacation Bible School
Watch the weekly Church Bulletin for details.
Dates and events subject to change
Washington, D.C. — Atheists and agnostics, Jews and Mormons are among the highest-scoring groups on a new survey of religious knowledge by the Pew Research Center’s Forum on Religion & Public Life, outperforming evangelical Protestants, mainline Protestants and Catholics on questions about the core teachings, history and leading figures of major world religions.
Almost one out of four Americans is Catholic, yet misconceptions abound about our teachings and beliefs.
If Non
believers have all the wrong answers it is
because when they asked questions there was no
one to give them right answers.
People that put
this much energy into trying to tear down the
church may, in reality be frustrated seekers who
never heard the real answers.
We want to
answer these questions.
email visitationweb@comcast.net
or call 732 477-0016 or write us a note and put it in the collection basket next
week.
We invite our parishioners, staff and others to exchange
ideas, ask questions and share experiences in our journey
to walk in the path of our Lord Jesus Christ. So Click
above and let us know what you think. We will post it here
and on our Facebook Page
A Message from Matthew
Kelly
Thank God for Mothers!
I was very fortunate to have a great mother to raise me and now I am inspired by the way my wife is mother to our children. There is something about a mother's love that seems to be right at the core of our experience as human beings. Their ability to nurture us and encourage may just be one of the most powerful forces in the universe. Here's a story to illustrate...
Heisman trophy winner, Danny Wuerffel, tells the story of a voice he heard throughout his whole life. He heard it in first grade when he was trying to win a race, “You’re the fastest boy in the grade, Danny!” it said. He won. He heard it in third grade as he turned his head to look at a classmate’s paper and cheat on a test. “You’re a good boy, Danny. Don’t cheat.” He didn’t. He said he heard that voice spurring him on and guiding him all throughout his time as a world-class athlete and competitor.
Flash forward to the birth of Danny’s first son. Danny’s mother was in town helping with the baby. Danny walked by the nursery where she was rocking the newborn. “You’re so strong, Jonah,” she said. “You’re such a good boy.” Danny paused. Her words sounded so familiar. Later he walked by the nursery and heard his mother still talking to the baby. “You’re so smart, Jonah. What a wonderful boy you are.” Danny Wuerffel broke into tears. The voice he had heard his whole life was the voice of his mother and father. It was the voice of love and encouragement they had poured into him.
This mother's day... do something extraordinary for your mother.
And to mothers everywhere... thanks for the ways you love, encourage, and nurture us. Never forget that we spend our whole lives listening to your voice, whether you are around or not... and use that voice powerfully every chance you get!
m.
If you would like to comment on anything or comment on the views already posted go to our Facebook page or Email
lbarbuscio@comcast.net and I will post them for you.
R.C.I.A.
Rite of Christian Initiation for Adult
s
Do you know of anyone who has not been
baptized? Do you know anyone who would like to learn more about the
Roman Catholic faith? What about someone who has been baptized in
another Christian Church and wishes to enter into full communion in
the Catholic Church? Maybe you know a baptized Catholic who has not
completed all of their sacraments. Please take the time to mention
to them about our process here at the Church of the Visitation. Our
process welcomes all; anyone who is interested in an introduction
into the Roman Catholic Church, its faith and life. Please contact
Dale Zanetti at ex. 214 for more information or for any questions
you might have.
ADULT CONFIRMATION
CLASSES
Sundays March 18 to May 20
Confirmation May 24th
It’s not too late! If you are over 18 and have not received the Sacrament of Confirmation, you are invited to enroll in Visitation’s Adult program for reception of Confirmation in May 2012. You cannot be a sponsor for Baptism or Confirmation if you have not been confirmed. Classes
are forming now. If interested, call 732-477-7059 ext. 214.
VOLUNTEERS NEEDED
Shorrock Gardens Care Center, Brick, NJ is in need of volunteers. There are many opportunities for you to assist. If you can help, please contact Dolores at 732-451-1000 ext. 621.
VISITATION VISITORS
Do you have a loved one or know of an elderly neighbor home alone? Could they use a friendly visitor, a weekly phone call, help with bills or mail, or a ride to a medical appointment or church on the weekend?
Visitatin Visitors Outreach Program may be able to help. Please call 732-477-7059 ext. 211 for more information.
BINGO
HELP NEEDED Volunteers
are needed for Tuesday Bingo from 10:00 AM to 2:00 PM and Friday Bingo from
6:30 to 10:30 PM (or any block of time).If
you can assist in any way, please stop by the Church Auditorium on Tuesday or
Friday during bingo.
HAPPY TRAILS CAMP
For children on the Autism Spectrum and with special needs from ages 6-10 years. This is a 6 week program running from June 25 – July 30. Camp Activity Hours are: 8AM – 3:00PM. Arrival time is 7:30-8:00 AM. Pick-up time is 3:00-4:00PM.
Camper to Staff ratio is 2:1; Qualified staff; nurturing surroundings; air conditioned facilities; wide variety of activities. Fees: $2500.00 for 6 week program. For more information visit: www.holyfamilysummercamp.com or call for a tour of our facility at 732-363-4771 X-211.
CATHOLIC HOME MISSIONS
Next week's second envelope is for the Catholic Home Missions Appeal which supports missions here in the United States. Catholic parishes in rural America still struggle to offer Mass, the sacraments, and religious education. Some dioceses are terribly short of priests, sisters, and the money needed to run parishes. Please give generously to assist fellow Catholics here in America.
BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUP
Our Spring Bereavement Consolation Group will be meeting every Tuesday morning 10:30 to 11:30 AM in the Daily Chapel from: April 10 through May 22. Please call Deacon Rich Johnston at 732-477-7059 ext. 221 if you’re planning on attending or for additional information.
SPECIAL
PARISH MAY CROWNING
Mary
has always held a special place in the hearts of the parishioners of
Visitation and May is a special month for honoring her.On Sunday, May 6, we will be crowing Mary after the 12:30 Mass.
Wednesday Morning 10 AM Bible Study
"
On Fire for the Word"
"The Acts of the Apostles"
The years from 30 to 60 A.D. were years in which the three very different groups - the Romans, the
Jews and the Christians - met in a conflict that often led to suffering and bloodshed,
but was ultimately a battle won by the faith and love of those who followed after Jesus,
the Christ. Jerusalem was ultimately overrun, the Temple destroyed. Rome decayed
from the inside and collapsed in ruins. The Christian faith grew and became stronger as
the life-changing love of Christ was shared and multiplied.
Join us as we read through the
Accts of the Apostles assisted each week by a segment of the 6 hour movie
series "A.D."
The A.D. Study Guide has been divided into 12 one-hour sessions containing about
six hours of video viewing. Most sessions have a balance of about 30 minutes of video
viewing and 30 minutes of readings from Acts and discussion.
COMMUNION FOR THE HOMEBOUND
If someone you know is homebound and would like to receive Holy Communion, please call the
Rectory Office at 732-477-0028 ext 203 during office hours so that we can schedule a Eucharistic Minister to visit the home.
ANOINTING OF THE SICK
We turn to Jesus for understanding and healing through the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick. This sacrament is for adults and children who are suffering from serious physical or mental illness, or about to undergo surgery. Please call the Rectory Office for more information.
HOSPITAL ADMISSIONS
If you are admitted to Ocean Medical Center, please alert the Admissions Clerk that you are a parishioner at Visitation; so that our hospital ministers can care for you spiritually.
HOUSE BLESSING
If you wish to have a blessing of your home, please call the rectory office ext. 201 to schedule a time for a Deacon or Priest to
visit,
Jane Roe never had
the abortion
Pro Choice No
Choice
Botched
Late Term Abotion
USAID's directive on conscience gives church officials glimmer of hope
WASHINGTON (CNS) -- A little publicized policy directive from the U.S. Agency for International Development is getting a closer look from religious freedom advocates and promoters of conscience protections in federal law. Months in development, the directive offers one of the broadest and most inclusive conscience protections to faith-based organizations funded by USAID to operate AIDS treatment and prevention programs and other health care programs around the world, Catholic observers said. Specifically, the directive bans discrimination against faith-based and other organizations that decide not to engage in activities that violate religious or moral principles, such as condom distribution and education in their use. Advocates of religious freedom see the language in the agency's acquisition and assistance policy directive as a model that could be implemented in all government programs, contracts and grants with minor changes depending on the programs individual agencies oversee. Such language could pertain to federal programs ranging from health care reform to assistance to human trafficking victims. The directive implements the conscience protection mandate that was included in the Tom Lantos and Henry J. Hyde United States Global Leadership Against HIV/AIDS, Tuberculosis and Malaria Reauthorization Act of 2008. The law authorized up to $48 billion over five years to combat malaria, tuberculosis and AIDS. It includes funding for the widely lauded President's Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief program, known as PEPFAR. The law, which expires at the end of fiscal year 2013, passed handily in both houses of Congress, both then under the control of Democrats: 308-116 in the House and 80-16 in the Senate.
Events
Every Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
Public Witness and Prayer at abortion clinic
A serious concern has arisen in the Toms River area for which we ask your assistance. An abortion clinic has opened and is operating in the community. We will provide a prayerful presence at the American Women's Center, 651 Route 37 West, Toms River on Wed. from 4:30 to 6 pm, and Fri. and Sat, 1 pm to 5 pm. Feel free to arrive and depart as your schedule allows. If you would like more information, contact M. Sherry 732-350-5474 or E. Spirko at 732-350-7447.
Every Saturday
Pro-Life Prayer Witness
Please join representatives of a number of local respect life organizations at a brief weekly prayer witness at 9:45 a.m. each Saturday morning at the Planned Parenthood facility in Trenton at State and Clinton. We only recite the Rosary, so it is not a huge time commitment, and then we leave. If you would like to get a ride, please call 609-896-3206..
This corner is dedicated to all of you
people in your 20s and 30s. The descendants of the "Baby
Boomers", the first of the "Latch Key
generation", "Generations X and Y", the millennial
generation etc. In short people in there 20s and 30s married or
Single
‘How Do I Serve the Church as a Lay Person?’
by Andy
Otto
"Lay persons are unique because they hold a special place in the function of human society … Their very engagement in secular activities can transform their ordinary work into apostolic work — work that touches lives and changes hearts."
For two and a half years I was a Jesuit, living religious life and experiencing what it was like to be part of the Church in more of a public capacity. I had many opportunities to serve people from all walks of life in different places. I had to get used to people calling me brother or father, though I was neither. It was kind of nice to be an “official” representative of the Catholic Church as a religious. But after a long discernment I decided to leave religious life in order to pursue the vocation of marriage and family. The biggest question for me was, How can I continue to serve the Church as a lay person? I wondered if not being a religious anymore would put a damper on being able to minister to people fully.
In an age when the Catholic Church is struggling to keep her voice relevant and prominent within society, the Catholic world sees the Church hierarchy at the fore of the effort. It is the bishops and priests on the news, writing the letters, and speaking out against complacency and the rise of secularism. Sure, they have the duty to shepherd the flock, but non-laypersons — including bishops, priests, religious, and seminarians — make up only 0.1% of the world Catholic population. The remaining 99.9% — laity — also have a vital responsibility to their role, as the Catechism says, “in the front line of the Church.” I was bothered that we seem to hear little about the lay vocation.
May 12, 2012 Do this for your friends and you will be a true friend: Teach them to love; teach them to be loved; and lead them to God.
Do this for me and you will be a true friend of mine: Teach me to love; teach me to be loved; and lead me to God.
May 11, 2012 A very dear friend of mine finished one of her letters with this line: "Help me to remember that when I have God things will always be in place." I pray we help each other to remember.
May 10, 2012 Read the gospels and observe those who live by fear. Look also at those who trust Jesus and live by faith. Don't let fear paralyze you. Trust in Jesus.
May 8, 2012 What we do to one another we do to Christ and to ourselves.
May 7, 2012
In the quietness, stillness, and darkness of the night, sit and listen to classical music with the one you love.
May 6, 2012
A boy takes a girl from the dance floor not to deny her her other friends, but so that he can communicate with her a little more. Jesus wants to do the same.
"The
Role of the Church is to Evangelize""Go
and teach all nations" Evangelization
in the Modern World (EvangeliiNuntiandi) Paul VI, 1975
"Above
all, the Gospel must be proclaimed by witness. Take a
Christian or a handful of Christians who, in the midst
of their own community, show their capacity for
understanding and acceptance, their sharing of life and
destiny with other people, their solidarity with the
efforts of all for whatever is noble and good."
"Let us suppose that, in addition, they radiate
in an altogether simple and unaffected way their faith
in values that go beyond current values, and their hope
in something that is not seen and that one would not
dare to imagine. Through this wordless witness these
Christians stir up irresistible questions in the hearts
of those who see how they live: Why are they like this?
Why do they live in this way? What or who is it that
inspires them? Why are they in our midst?"
Remember
the Dean Martin Show?
Red
Buttons Never Got a Dinner
Funny
Airline Pilot
Foster Brooks
Apologies
to the Under 40 crowd there was nothing funny about
Airline travel this week
The
Journey Home
Kids
Corner
Peter's
House
The
Resurrection
Religion and Science
The more I learn the more I believe
The Pro Choice folks say she has no right to
expect to live until she takes her first breath outside the womb.
The HHS says pregnancy is a curable illness.
What do you say?
Our church subsists by the contributions of its members. Thank you for your kind generosity.
We would
appreciate any comments or suggestions about this page.
Send Email to lbarbuscio@comcast.net